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Friday, November 20, 2009

Freedom in Christ vs. Legalism

Over the past few weeks, I have read multiple blog posts, comments, and even magazine articles that bring up the question of living a legalistic lifestyle, or living under the covering of God's grace, in Liberty and Freedom.  This has caused much pondering for me, so I want to write about it ... process it with you ... and see what you all think ...

My ponderings began with the following blog posts.  I am not here to debate the specific topics of these posts, but rather to look at the responses that were given to the posts.


First, Bridget wrote THIS POST about Halloween.  Have you met Bridget yet?  She is a young homeschooling mom who is about to embark on the Adventure of a Lifetime.  Some of what she said was ...

"I just don't like this holiday, and feel kind of convicted in letting my kids be a part of it.  As Christians are we compromising?  Are we doing the things of this world?


I guess it's a personal decision and it's up to us as parents and our own heart convictions.  As a Christian do you celebrate Halloween?  I'd love to hear your take on it."

When I read this, I saw a young mom who was really searching for answers, and was wanting to hear what other Believers felt about Halloween.  She started a good discussion, with many varied opinions.  While there were many comments that agreed with her, I'd like to first look at a few of the comment that did not agree.

"I went trick or treating when I was a kid ... and I think I turned out okay."

Personally, I do not think that that reasoning should be the basis for how we make life decisions.  Just because we "turned out okay" doesn't mean that the Lord might not have something even better for our own children.

"We do let our children trick or treat ... As for Biblical support about how we made our decision, mainly Romans 14 in which Paul is explaining about Christian liberty.  We usually feel like it's the more liberal Christians that are weak, but that's not what he says.  The weaker Christian is the one bound by a law that is not God's.  In the case of Romans 14, eating meat that is "unclean".  Whereas Paul says in v. 14 "there is nothing unclean of itself".  In other words, as Christians we know God is Sovereign, Lord and Master of the Universe.  We know that Satan and demons are confined to the limits of God's will.  We know that there is no power in the dressing up in costumes just as there is no power in idols or the eating of meat sacrificed to idols. ... We allow them to dress up and trick-or-treat, because we're free to do so and we believe we do it in a way that does not dishonor God in any way.


"All things are legal, but not all things are profitable."  1 Cor. 10:23  And remember that while man looks on the outer appearance, God looks on the heart.  Our heart's desire is to honor God in all we do.  ...  Remember, if it's not prohibited by Scripture, we have freedom to make our own decision about it.  Also, we are not supposed to judge another Christian on how he chooses to celebrate or not celebrate Halloween because he is God's servant and to his own master he stands or falls. (Romans 14:4).

"Sometimes, we as Christians get so caught up in these things that we forget Colossians 2 where Paul says not to get caught up in legalism.  Specifically verse 16 and 17 say, "Therefore do not let anyone judge you by what you eat or drink, or with regard to a religious festival, a New Moon celebration or a Sabbath day. These are a shadow of the things that were to come; the reality, however is found in Christ."  In other words let us not say that we are more holy or more right for not celebrating Halloween.  We are free in Christ and do not need to add our own rules to the Bible and say that we are more holy for doing so. ...  We need to be careful as Christians not to become legalistic, make up our own rules, and attribute them to God."

"My 7 year old is going to be a witch this year.  Black pointy hat and all.  She has no idea what a real life pagan witch does ... and really, I've never encountered one myself ...We really do have freedom and liberty in Christ."

Now, for her very last comment, someone who decided to take on the topic of legalism ...

"The one problem I do have with some of the comments are peoples' shouts of LEGALISM, just because they celebrate it and are assuming you are calling them bad Christians, which you were not.  We must remember that in almost every promise of freedom, there is an underlying responsibility.  We must be responsible Christians.  We are free, but we are not.  We are free from sin and condemnation, but we are not free from Christ.  Christ has some mighty strong words to say about things, and we are his "slaves", his "servants".  We fall under His headship.  We must, in our freedom, not forget that.  Most people who are accused of being "legalistic" are just people who are truly desiring to follow our Lord and Savior with our lives."


A week later, I read THIS POST by Bianca ... about Is Drinking A Sin?  Have you ever visited Bianca's blog?  She is a young, single woman who is passionate about loving and serving the Lord.  I LOVE her style and so appreciate that she is willing to tackle the tough stuff on her blog.  Here is just a peek into Bianca's thoughts on this.  I hope you'll pop over to her blog to listen to her 3 minute video, and to read more about the Biblical research she has done on this topic.

"Some Christians think of alcohol as up there with adultery, idol worship, and South Park.  I met a fundamentalist who argued that the "wine" drunk in the Bible is not wine at all, but actually grape juice.  I simply asked for a scripture reference which bans alcohol.  He couldn't provide one.  I wasn't lobbying for the alcohol industry; I was simply advocating for a balance of scripture."

She went on to ask ...

"So, what do you think?  How can we have our liberties, yet be mindful of our weaker brothers?  Comments, suggestions, stones to throw?"

And ... a look at some of her 43 comments ...

"Paul talks about becoming all things to all people to win more for Christ, and I believe having the freedom in Christ to enjoy a drink occasionally falls under this Scripture (1 Corinthians 9:22)."


"In general, being legalistic and making rules for people (rules based, more often than not, on our own personal likes and dislikes) bothers me more than giving people grace where there is no clear indicator that sin took place."

"We are given choices.  We do have freedoms and what we do with those freedoms is between us and God."

Now, I'm not saying that I disagree with every part of every comment.  I just wanted to give some examples of the "Freedom" side of things.

Then ... I read an article in World magazine.  Andree Seu wrote, "Control That Tongue" for the October 10, 2009 issue.  I'd like to share some of Andree's thoughts, now ...

"Brothers, can we talk about legalism?  I wrote a blog sharing that God is teaching me to be careful with my mouth, and that there are no such things as inconsequential words.  Then I was knocked off kilter with a thread of comments charging legalism.  Unless we settle this question right away, I'm afraid we won't get anywhere.


Yes, we rest in the grace of Christ.  And it is a costly grace, and costly discipleship does it require.  It is a grace secured at a great price, and it asks in return, for all we have.  It is a grace to relax in as regards our secure eternal destination, but a grace to strive in as regards our efforts to live for Him:  "Make every effort to supplement your faith with virtue"  (2 Peter 1:5).  It is a grace with plenteous forgiveness when we sin, but it does not logically follow from this that it is an iota less serious to sin. ...


Sure, we should always be careful of creeping legalism.  The Apostle Paul was the first to say so ... and also the first to command, "Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths"  (Ephesians 4:29).  In the same letter famous for his anti-legalist preaching, Paul gives counsel like "Do not be deceived; God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap" (Galatians 6:7)  ...


Or has the doctrine of the sovereignty of God swallowed up human responsibility? ...


If exhortation to godly speech is rebuffed as incipient legalism, then all preaching is impossible.  Then your pastors are all legalists when they instruct you to any change of attitude or behavior.  If the charge of legalism is the knee-jerk response to all advice, it puts a chill on everyone who has a word from the Lord for the building up of the saints - though Paul spent all of 1 Corinthians 14 urging such mutual edifications. ...


Must I refrain from testifying lest it be construed as legalism? ...



So ... what do you think?  How do we find the balance between Freedom in Christ and Legalism?

Where do you fit?  How do others see you?  Do you find yourself more on the "Freedom in Christ" side of things, or do you tend towards the "Legalistic"?  I'd love to hear your thoughts ...

I hope you'll pop on over to Bridget's and Bianca's blog posts, too.  There, in the comments section, you will find some of my thoughts ...

9 comments:

  1. We actually touched on this a little bit in my Bible study this week, because we were talking about suffering and persecution. Because obviously, we read the New Testament, and we're not physically "in chains." Living in the US...well, frankly, the climate towards conservative Believers is changing. But historically, we certainly haven't experienced the same kind of persecution that people in Africa or Eastern Europe might.

    But this question was raised: If I'm not being persecuted, am I really making a strong strike for the Kingdom? Am I speaking out sacrificially for Christ Himself if I'm living a super-easy comfortable life?

    The way that it ties in, for me, is what I counseled my young wives' group about, what I've been learning so much in the past few years. I feel like God has been growing me so much in grace, both in learning about the sheer amount of grace that He has shown to me, and (the natural result of that) how I am compelled by the Gospel of Grace to extend that grace to others.

    What I told my girls (because I shared with them a rundown of my "Am I Your Crazy Friend?" post) is this:

    It's not about rules, or trying to impress people, or trying to push people away. It is possible - and I have seen people do it - to "seek God" simply for the sake of making a grand statement and making people mad. Or people try in vain in their own flesh to live a radically different life, because they are seeking persecution. Ridiculous!! Their hearts are so not in the right place.

    Above all, it's not about seeking suffering - IT'S ABOUT SEEKING GOD'S KINGDOM. Seeking Him first, pursuing His righteousness.

    I really do believe, and I have friends that are a testament to this, that there are people who can prayerfully examine controversial issues that aren't directly addressed in God's Word (like birth control or Santa or Halloween), and arrive at decisions that are...opposite of ours. I certainly cannot know the earnest-ness of their hearts as they seek God's will, but I trust that my friends who I know love Jesus are seeking His best will for their lives. As I always say, "He doesn't call all Believers into the foreign mission field." :)

    I know this comment is getting long enough to be a post by itself, and I'm sorry. :) The last thing I want to say is that people tend to cry "legalism!!" and go on a witch hunt at the first hint of extreme conservatism because of a failure of MANY generations of the Church to extend the grace of Christ to others. And Grace is not a mild-mannered "I'm okay, you're okay, blah blah blah" new-agey widespread and lukewarm acceptance...not that "tolerance" that liberals accuse of us being "intolerant." Grace gently but unrelentingly says, "Yes, this is sin, but I love you anyway, because Jesus love you."

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  2. Great thoughts Lauren. Thanks.

    I would much rather have someone say, "We really sought the Lord on this topic, and for us believe that it is okay." Rather than, "I can do anything I want because of freedom in Christ." That often seems to be a blank statement of "I can do anything.", rather than a mature believer who has sought the Lord for wisdom and direction.

    I am especially concerned by the people who shout, "Legalism", when someone (such as Bridget) is just stating a personal conviction, with no intent of telling others what they should or should not do. In no way did Bridget try to tell people, "Halloween is evil." She was simply asking for a bit of discussion on the topic, because she was feeling unsettled about the issue.

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  3. Well, the fact of the matter is that people are going to feel sensitive about things that maybe they aren't entirely settled about themselves. I mean, Light illuminates darkness, right? I have found that in the past when I shared my passion for being a stay-at-home-mom. I got called every name under the sun by women who didn't even HAVE children yet, but were planning to continue working after having children. After some discussion with a few of them, it was revealed that they didn't really *want* to go back to work, but that they had made some choices that required their household to be a dual-income family. Whereas my friends who have prayerfully regarded the issue (as in the case of a few of my friends who are physicians), and feel at peace about working, whether part-time or full-time, whenever the issue comes up, they simply shrug and smile. They are secure and feel no need to debate, because after prayer, they feel at peace where they are.

    I have seen Sunday school classes ripped apart over birth control.

    I have seen women's groups ripped apart over transparency in struggles.

    But in groups where people are seeking Christ first, seeking first to dislodge the planks from our own eyes before seeing the splinter in another's, I just haven't experienced this kind of divide. Yet. God-willing. :)

    So, the Church as a whole is certainly not responsible for the poor reaction of the less-conservative on these divisive issues. But, I do still think that historically, the face of the Church in America has been far more condemning, self-righteous, and arrogant than the face of Christ. :/

    I don't want to be "the Church." I don't want to be what most of my unsaved friends think of as a Christian. I just want to be a servant to my King. I just want to be Jesus to someone today. And tomorrow. And then every day after that, until He takes me Home.

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  4. Oh, and I agree. I think that far too many hone in on "Everything is permissible" and forget that all-important second half: "But not everything is beneficial"! :)

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  5. I think it is kind of like the lady who was interviewing people to drive her car up the mountain. she asked each person how close can you get me to the edge of the road and still be a safe driver.
    Each continued to say.....I can get you closer to the edge....
    In the end she went with the driver that said- your life is too valuable. I would never risk you being close to the edge. I would stick as close to the mountain as possible.
    When it comes to what we can and can't do....it is really just a simple matter of How Close Can We Get to THE MOUNTAIN? If it takes us away from the mountain....it is not God's Will for us.

    For everyone this changes with time. We used to think that a lot of things were ok....but when we were growing in Christ we have chipped away a lot of things. Slowly but surely we feel God is bringing us closer to THE MOUNTAIN- closer to Himself. When God convicts you- it may hurt, you may run from it for a while because you don't want to hear it, but in the end.....you are sooo glad that it has been chipped away.

    Looking back...I do not miss the "things of this world"...because I am closer to Jesus.

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  6. Perfect analogy! Love it! Yes ... I want to get as close to the Mountain as I can get.


    :) :) :)

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  7. Ohh, I love that mountain analogy! I'm definitely going to have to "borrow" that one. Thanks for sharing! :)

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  8. Hi several years ago the Big D family was at family camp and the speaker said the following. "how close to this line right here are you willing to get"? The line represented biblical standards, while the other side of the line represented the worlds standards/beliefs. I remember very clearly thinking that I don't want to get any where close to crossing the line. Do I even want to get close? NO!! I want to be obsessed with Jesus Christ to the point it's the only thing I think about. For those of you familiar with the book Crazy Love check out chapter 8. Ask yourself this: am I obsessed with Jesus or the what the world has to offer?

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  9. Mama of 14:

    I love how you appraoched this issue. Sometimes blogs can be dogmatic about proving a point. Other times (like this time), you open up the discussion to dialogue.

    I will openly admit that I was borderline legalistic on certain issues and it look the loving insight of other believers to allow me to see the freedom we have. BUT WITH FREEDOM COMES RESPONSIBILITY!

    I chose to be responsible with my liberties in Christ.

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