Mama's Morning
16 oz. White Chocolate
Macadamia Nut Mocha
Wow! I am learning a LOT about dieting and nutrition,
as I am focusing on my Takin' Care of Mama Challenge.
First of all, I must let you know that Mama is a "Rule Follower".
* Mama drives 55 on the freeway (if that is the speed limit),
regardless of the fact that everyone else is driving 70.
(The Big Kids have to remind Mama to speed UP
to the speed limit, when she doesn't have Cruise Control.)
* Mama follows the arrows at the gas station,
even if that means waiting an extra 10 minutes
to fill her car up with gas.
* Mama counts her items in the grocery cart before
getting into an "express line". If Mama has 14
items rather than the required 10, she will
go stand in a longer line (or put 4 items back).
So, when Mama goes on a diet, all she needs is a list
of "rules" to follow, and she is good-to-go.
Mama has realized, however, that sometimes these
Diet Rules have actually been detrimental to her
goal of losing weight.
Following the Rules, has actually caused Mama
to gain weight. Oh no!
Here are some typical Diet Rules that people are
encouraged to follow in order to lose weight.
#1 Eat 1200 Calories Per Day
#2 Do Not Eat ...
... Pasta
... Bread
... White Rice
#3 Eat LOTS of Fruits & Vegetables
#4 Do Not Drink the "Fancy Drinks"
at the Coffee Shop.
#5 Do Not Use Artificial Sweetener
#6 Weigh Yourself Once a Week
Do Not Weigh Yourself Daily
These "Diet Rules" do NOT work for Mama.
Here's why ...
#1 Eat 1200 Calories Per Day
When Mama eats just 1100-1200 calories per day ...
Mama gains weight. Yes. I do.
I don't just "plateau". No. I GAIN weight.
Mama must eat 1400 - 1600 calories per day,
in order to lose weight. Weird! But ... whatever works!
#2 Do Not Eat ________
When Mama doesn't eat these things,
she doesn't eat ENOUGH calories,
and, therefore, she GAINS weight.
#3 Eat LOTS of Fruit & Vegetables
Yes. I do eat LOTS of fruit and veggies.
However, when I fill up on too many fruit and veggies,
I, once again, do not get ENOUGH calories.
#4 Do Not Drink the Fancy Drinks at the Coffee Shop
Here is Mama's philosophy ...
A. Research shows that drinking 1-2 cups of coffee
per day is good for you.
B. Research shows that drinking low fat milk
(in limited quantities) is good for you.
C. Research shows that eating chocolate
(a small amount per day) is good for you.
Therefore ... how, exactly, is drinking a Mocha bad for you?
Mama gets her daily "dose" of coffee, milk, and chocolate
in 1 healthy "snack" of a Hot Mocha from Mama's Coffee Shop.
#5 Do Not Use Artificial Sweetener
In the many articles that I have read recently, the reasoning behind not using artificial sweeteners is because it will make your body crave sweets more. Mama has not found this to be true. It actually fulfills my "need" for sweetness, and helps me to not crave sweets.
Yes. I know. There may be a risk of cancer from some of the artificial sweeteners. And, later on, I may choose to not use them. However, right now, I can weigh my risks. Would I rather risk ... obesity and diabetes, or face the very small risk of cancer caused by artificial sweeteners. I would rather stick with the artificial sweeteners, and reduce the risk of obesity and diabetes. That is the conscious choice that Mama is making (and really does not want to debate in the comments section). Smile.
Yes. Mama's Daily Dose of Coffee
includes a bit of artificial sweetness.
#6 Weigh Yourself Weekly
Do Not Weigh Yourself Daily
I know. I know. This is supposed to be a BIG "No-No". Do not "obsess", by weighing yourself daily. However, Mama has found that weighing daily is a BIG help. When Mama weighs herself weekly, she must go back and analyze the full week's worth of calories eaten, to try to figure out what she did right or wrong. When Mama weighs herself daily, she can very quickly figure out what to stop ... or what to keep doing. Mama needs the daily weigh-in to quickly tweak her daily caloric intake. Mama is actually less "obsessed", when weighing in daily.
So ... those are the Diet Rules
that Mama must learn to break.
Remember ... Mama is a Rule Follower.
So ... this is VERY difficult.
But ... Mama is EXCITED about ALL
that she is learning.
Much more to share ...
Stay tuned ...
You forgot Rule #7 - Know your own body! Do what works for you. No body is exactly like anyone else's. Keep up the good work!
ReplyDeleteHave you read- Gwen Shamblin's Weigh Down. It is a retraining of eating not a diet book. It focuses on listening to God's internal hunger pangs....and NOT cutting out things you love. Love that book because you don't cut out things.....just train yourself to eat slower....listen to your body- are you really hungry? No calorie counting!!! It seriously works!
ReplyDeleteE-mail me if you want more info :)
Oh Dawn ... too funny that you would mention that. I was just thinking of that diet earlier today.
ReplyDeleteAbout 13 years ago, I led a Weigh Down Workshop group at our church. Not only that, but a big Seattle TV station did a story on it, and they came to our house and filmed me and the kids for hours, talking all about how this program worked.
But ... it didn't work for me.
The "Rule" was ... don't eat unless you are hungry. So, I would go 12 or 15 hours between eating. I wasn't hungry. I was eating about 900 calories per day, because I didn't get hungry.
No. That "Rule" did not work for me AT ALL. I have to, seriously, force myself to eat on the "diet" I am now on. I must MAKE myself eat 5 or 6 times per day, in order to keep my metabolism going.
All of the ladies that I did the Weigh Down Workshop with lost a little bit of weight, but quickly put it back on, and more, after our "study" was done.
Now ... while this "plan" didn't work for me, I will say that it had a very good Bible Study that accompanied it. It had a lot of good stuff to say. But ... it did NOT help me to lose weight. Nope. It just completely shut down my metabolism.
I must FORCE myself to eat breakfast every day. If I wait until I am hungry ... I don't eat until 2 or 3 in the afternoon. Yep. That's how MY body works (or doesn't work, as the case may be.)
I'd love to hear what other "Rules" work for all of you.
Laurel :)
I need a mocha. Recipe, please?
ReplyDeleteI love your rules. I have the hardest time eating breakfast, and yet I know that it is so important.
I'm going to be printing out your rules for reference!
Rachel
Oh, I have to weigh daily, too! I'm too curious, can't stand the suspense. I can plan from there, too. :-)
ReplyDeleteGreat post!
ReplyDeleteI'm a daily weigh-er too. I spent the last two months weighing weekly and my weight has crept up and up....I need the kick in the rear a daily weigh-in can deliver!
Good luck!
Cxx
Way to go on listening to your body. Our bodies are complex and unique (thanks God :-) so a set of "rules" that works for one doesn't for another. One thing that helps metabolism and promotes muscle tone is protein- if you're like me you probably won't like eating a ton of extra meat or beans. I like cottage cheese. If you like it, 1 cup of low fat cottage cheese has about 160 calories, 2 or less grams of fat, and get this, 26 grams of protein! Mix that with fruit and it's a great mini meal to keep your metabolism up. Go Go Go Mama D, you can do this
ReplyDeleteI think bodies need about 90 grams of protein per day.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who had that surgery ... she has to drink protein shakes because her body will not process protein the same anymore.
So Laurel, are you trying to eat Protein with each meal?? I've heard that is good to do with meals & snacks.
Lean Protein & Healthy carbs.
You CAN do this!!